It took me six months to get my husband to come around. Not talking about it was giving me serious anxiety, and once I explained it from that perspective, my husband listened.
We worked with a local lawyer to put our wills, trust and power of attorney documents together. We made formal decisions about who would become our children’s guardian if we both died, who would serve as our trustee and what would happen to our remains.
I know my situation is probably nothing like yours, but in these cases, I think you’d share my feelings of relief. Getting to that place is tough, especially when there are big feelings to confront on the way. But, when you get there, it’s worth the work.
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